deps: update to node-gyp@9.1.0

[amitdahan]

What's the problem this PR addresses?

After cloning berry and trying to yarn, on my particular setup (my guess would be python-CLI related) I got an error while postinstalling sharp:

build.log

# This file contains the result of Yarn building a package (sharp@npm:0.28.3)
# Script name: install

sharp: Detected globally-installed libvips v8.13.0
sharp: Building from source via node-gyp
gyp info it worked if it ends with ok
gyp info using node-gyp@6.0.1
gyp info using node@16.15.0 | darwin | arm64
gyp info find Python using Python version 3.10.6 found at "/opt/homebrew/opt/python@3.10/bin/python3.10"
(node:38886) [DEP0150] DeprecationWarning: Setting process.config is deprecated. In the future the property will be read-only.
(Use `node --trace-deprecation ...` to show where the warning was created)
gyp info spawn /opt/homebrew/opt/python@3.10/bin/python3.10
gyp info spawn args [
gyp info spawn args   '/Users/amitda/dev/berry2/.yarn/unplugged/node-gyp-npm-6.0.1-a5d9899eb8/node_modules/node-gyp/gyp/gyp_main.py',
gyp info spawn args   'binding.gyp',
gyp info spawn args   '-f',
gyp info spawn args   'make',
gyp info spawn args   '-I',
gyp info spawn args   '/Users/amitda/dev/berry2/.yarn/unplugged/sharp-npm-0.28.3-0b2c15610d/node_modules/sharp/build/config.gypi',
gyp info spawn args   '-I',
gyp info spawn args   '/Users/amitda/dev/berry2/.yarn/unplugged/node-gyp-npm-6.0.1-a5d9899eb8/node_modules/node-gyp/addon.gypi',
gyp info spawn args   '-I',
gyp info spawn args   '/Users/amitda/Library/Caches/node-gyp/16.15.0/include/node/common.gypi',
gyp info spawn args   '-Dlibrary=shared_library',
gyp info spawn args   '-Dvisibility=default',
gyp info spawn args   '-Dnode_root_dir=/Users/amitda/Library/Caches/node-gyp/16.15.0',
gyp info spawn args   '-Dnode_gyp_dir=/Users/amitda/dev/berry2/.yarn/unplugged/node-gyp-npm-6.0.1-a5d9899eb8/node_modules/node-gyp',
gyp info spawn args   '-Dnode_lib_file=/Users/amitda/Library/Caches/node-gyp/16.15.0/<(target_arch)/node.lib',
gyp info spawn args   '-Dmodule_root_dir=/Users/amitda/dev/berry2/.yarn/unplugged/sharp-npm-0.28.3-0b2c15610d/node_modules/sharp',
gyp info spawn args   '-Dnode_engine=v8',
gyp info spawn args   '--depth=.',
gyp info spawn args   '--no-parallel',
gyp info spawn args   '--generator-output',
gyp info spawn args   'build',
gyp info spawn args   '-Goutput_dir=.'
gyp info spawn args ]
Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/Users/amitda/dev/berry2/.yarn/unplugged/node-gyp-npm-6.0.1-a5d9899eb8/node_modules/node-gyp/gyp/gyp_main.py", line 47, in <module>
  import gyp
File "/Users/amitda/dev/berry2/.yarn/unplugged/node-gyp-npm-6.0.1-a5d9899eb8/node_modules/node-gyp/gyp/pylib/gyp/__init__.py", line 10, in <module>
  import gyp.input
File "/Users/amitda/dev/berry2/.yarn/unplugged/node-gyp-npm-6.0.1-a5d9899eb8/node_modules/node-gyp/gyp/pylib/gyp/input.py", line 9, in <module>
  import gyp.common
File "/Users/amitda/dev/berry2/.yarn/unplugged/node-gyp-npm-6.0.1-a5d9899eb8/node_modules/node-gyp/gyp/pylib/gyp/common.py", line 499, in <module>
  class OrderedSet(collections.MutableSet):
AttributeError: module 'collections' has no attribute 'MutableSet'
gyp ERR! configure error 
gyp ERR! stack Error: `gyp` failed with exit code: 1
gyp ERR! stack     at ChildProcess.onCpExit (/Users/amitda/dev/berry2/.yarn/unplugged/node-gyp-npm-6.0.1-a5d9899eb8/node_modules/node-gyp/lib/configure.js:351:16)
gyp ERR! stack     at ChildProcess.emit (node:events:527:28)
gyp ERR! stack     at Process.ChildProcess._handle.onexit (node:internal/child_process:291:12)
gyp ERR! System Darwin 22.1.0
gyp ERR! command "/Users/amitda/.fnm/node-versions/v16.15.0/installation/bin/node" "/Users/amitda/dev/berry2/.yarn/unplugged/node-gyp-npm-6.0.1-a5d9899eb8/node_modules/node-gyp/bin/node-gyp.js" "rebuild"
gyp ERR! cwd /Users/amitda/dev/berry2/.yarn/unplugged/sharp-npm-0.28.3-0b2c15610d/node_modules/sharp
gyp ERR! node -v v16.15.0
gyp ERR! node-gyp -v v6.0.1
gyp ERR! not ok 

How did you fix it?

I noticed node-gyp being 3 majors behind and indeed after bumping it to true latest installation finished with no errors.

(I believe the fix was actually just 1 minor forward in 6.1.0 - nodejs/node-gyp@04da736)

Checklist

• I have read the Contributing Guide.
• I have set the packages that need to be released for my changes to be effective.
• I will check that all automated PR checks pass before the PR gets reviewed.