Fix build on RN 0.74 (#3024)

## Description

Changes made in #2966 were necessary for Gesture Handler to work with React Native 0.75. Unfortunately, they also broke builds on versions below 0.75. This PR fixes those builds.

Fixes #3023

## Test plan

I've tested following scenarios:

1. New React Native 0.74.3 app without these changes - build fails 🔴 
2. New React Native 0.74.3 app with this PR applied - builds properly 🟢 
3. New React Native 0.75.0-rc.6 app with this PR applies - builds properly 🟢

android/src/main/jni/cpp-adapter.cpp

@@ -19,10 +19,8 @@ void decorateRuntime(jsi::Runtime &runtime) {
                     return jsi::Value::null();
                 }
 
-                auto shadowNodeWrapper = arguments[0]
-                        .asObject(runtime).getNativeState<ShadowNodeWrapper>(runtime);
-                bool isFormsStackingContext = shadowNodeWrapper->shadowNode->getTraits()
-                        .check(ShadowNodeTraits::FormsStackingContext);
+                auto shadowNode = shadowNodeFromValue(runtime, arguments[0]);
+                bool isFormsStackingContext = shadowNode->getTraits().check(ShadowNodeTraits::FormsStackingContext);
 
                 return jsi::Value(isFormsStackingContext);
             });

apple/RNGestureHandlerModule.mm

@@ -99,10 +99,8 @@ void decorateRuntime(jsi::Runtime &runtime)
         if (!arguments[0].isObject()) {
           return jsi::Value::null();
         }
-
-        auto shadowNodeWrapper = arguments[0].asObject(runtime).getNativeState<ShadowNodeWrapper>(runtime);
-        bool isFormsStackingContext =
-            shadowNodeWrapper->shadowNode->getTraits().check(ShadowNodeTraits::FormsStackingContext);
+        auto shadowNode = shadowNodeFromValue(runtime, arguments[0]);
+        bool isFormsStackingContext = shadowNode->getTraits().check(ShadowNodeTraits::FormsStackingContext);
         return jsi::Value(isFormsStackingContext);
       });
   runtime.global().setProperty(runtime, "isFormsStackingContext", std::move(isFormsStackingContext));